So wife wants a divorce and I don't, she says I disgust her, and that she is no longer in love with me. I told her that I would honor her feelings if she wants a divorce all she would have to do is fill out the paper work. I even went down to the court house to get the papers for her. This was a month ago and paper work still sitting on the table untouched. If she says she hates me that much why doesn't she go then.