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Old May 18, 2012, 07:41 PM
Mommilady Mommilady is offline
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My family is very negative in general. They've always been this way. It isn't just about my fiance. They were negative about everything before he came along. He is just a new topic for them to be negative about. No there isn't more to it other than they are just negative people and I'm the outcast of the family. There is nothing more to it or anything behind it other than they are just negative people and have been since I was born. As I said my fiance/wedding is just another reason for them to be negative. Yes they like my fiance but they are just negative people.


Wow, that's rough. My dad could be very negative and difficult to please. If I came home with an A-, he wanted to know why it wasn't an A+. I still struggle with the urge to jump through hoops just to make others happy. It's really easy to say "Don't let them get to you, do what will make YOU happy" but I know from experience it's not so easy to put into practice.