Trinity, I felt pain from my ex-T who hurt me for over a year later. I was really triggered 11 months later and then had to work this out some for a couple of months and now it's much better. I found that there were phases and triggers, but I worked through it completely perhaps 14 months after our relationship ended. It's hard when you've been betrayed and hurt by someone whom you invested your trust in, so there is no should or right amount of time.