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Originally Posted by Mike_J
Now I'm not trying to get into an argument with anyone but I might have a mental illness but there are some really CRAZY people out there. Hate is such a destructive emotion, not just to the people who are hated, it carries such a heavy toll on the person who hates. And to carry that burden around over a fictional TV character, that is NUTS.
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To me, the fundamentalists are crazy (as a group). No offense to any fundamentalists out there. I experienced a lot of hate while I was in; I still see it now that I am out. T said, "She's a TV character; she's not even real, and he carries that kind of hate. I just don't get it."
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Originally Posted by hankster
Equal? Smarter, girl. You wouldn't take that couch carp, or someone who would dish it out. Me, I am perpetually couchless, I am so bad at dealing with what it takes to get a couch, let alone replace one. My T said he had cases of stuff in his garage from when the ex got into some pyramid scheme - I was like, and you married HER and not me, wtf??? I would never do anything like that to you! Our idols have feet of clay, but they can still help us. It was hubris that blew up the space shuttle Challenger, not lack of technical knowledge.
Anyway, awesome post and awesome session. Seems like your husband did get some perspective on things, so that's really great!
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H actually told me that T served her purpose for him. He said he usually doesn't take other people's advice (he's right
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And yes, I would never put up with someone who a) argues over obviously necessary purchases, b) controls the money, or c) got involved in any kind of pyramid scheme. That's just me.
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Originally Posted by Perna
What a great session with your T. I don't think her husband is necessarily controlling about the money; she could step in and find out how much money they have and make a decision from there; I am like that, don't make the effort to find out, just ask can I spend or spend it. I think men and women think a whole lot differently about money and the "practical" things (if you can sit on the couch the couch is still viable); my husband use to does this thing with the trees and other plants in the yard; if there is a single green leaf, the plant's alive and well and doesn't need replacing, never mind that it might fall on the roof of the house |
She said her H doesn't want to buy new things and she gets tired of it. I really don't know if he controls the money or not. It just sounds like it.
Then again, my H will hold on to underwear until it falls off his butt.
