Sept,

I understand what you are saying, and this is why i chose to remove myself from most of the discussion.

I feel compassion for all humans because all humans start off with basic goodness, which means some part of them still maintains that basic goodness.

The one thing I wanted to touch on, however, was:

It's every adult that has gone through the same experiences as a child.

I do not necessarily agree. I went through 12 years of it with two different abusers. I don't know if I will ever forgive, but I can understand the why's behind it.