And where is self esteem is these young women.......????

Perhaps this is the key...

They have no self esteem. They had no one to teach them.

Perhaps any sense of self was taken from them when they were little girls by sick people just like this.

Sick people who these women now find themselves attracted to because some attention is better than none.

Just like hookers and strippers are, nine times out of ten, childhood sexual abuse vitims who get trapped into (they believe) having "power" over men the only way they know how. The only way they were taught. The only way they feel worth anything. (double-edged sword here)

I dunno. Just my opinion.