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May 19, 2012, 05:48 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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1tash1 YOU ARE NOT TOTALLY TO BLAME!! You're just worn out!! Don't let your wife get into your head and stomp around!  She's trying to break you down so that YOU will take all the blame. You are NOT all to blame, remember????
She was NOT honest with you!!! You had NO IDEA how she felt emotionally, remember??? You had to hear it in the counselor's office!! How can you have a marriage when one partner isn't being honest??? You did everything you COULD for that family, yet she wasn't being honest with you. Evidently even tho you did everything you could, it wasn't enough! What MORE did she want -- BLOOD??? You build her a new home, she had everything a woman could want -- yet it wasn't enough.
Are you SURE she doesn't have someone else?? I would sure be wondering about now. You've broken your back for this woman, yet she's not satisfied. How come?  You've done every single thing she's asked of you --- but she's not happy. Why? When she says jump, you jump. She wants more-- ???
Seems to me it's time for HER to make some effort in this marriage, don't you think??? You've been giving 200% since this whole thing started and she keeps wanting more, yet she hasn't given very darn much --- she keep complaining. YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM AT THIS POINT. You've PAID for what happened. You've shown her that you're 100% committed to making this work. YOU ARE worth the effort, and you are NOT bad!
Don't run yourself down anymore. You couldn't try any harder! If the marriage fails, it will NO be your fault. God bless & take care my friend. Hugs, Lee 
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