In my very recent experience, expressing my attraction to and deep love and connection that I feel for T has only enhanced the level of intimacy and trust in our relationship, and has enabled me to have the safety to dive right into the deep end. Very empowering, once I was able to move past the neediness and overwhelming desire. My T is also extremely handsome and also brilliant and sensitive. Lethal combo for me, but I think I'm moving through it, this week anyway!