Kirby -- I'm totally with you on the intimate relationship that doesn't involve sex. That has been my experience as well. That's a great point, and good way to explore it. I, too, focus my sexual energy on my husband.

T is still young-ish. Still just a few years out from grad school. And I know that he, personally, has struggled with sexual issues. I think that's why my pastor recommended him to me -- because he could help me with my own sexual identity and image that has been so effed up. So, might as well dive in, right? Yeah, I'll try to do that. Prayers for cajones on Wednesday.