tempting fate:
... ... and I tried to find the sig photo some one has ...
Crashing cymbols over the heads of sleeping polar bears? Ya, also would be tempting fate.
Assuming that fate exists, we will meet our destinies in due course.
Tempting fate seems to me to be a different thing, and having nothing to do with the usual concept of fate.
Tempting fate implies "Asking for it," living on the edge ... risking it all.

Is that what you're doing?