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May 19, 2012, 10:01 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Why have you been miserable since you've been with your husband? Is it because of this child? You certainly can't blame HER. This poor child is the way she is because of her parents. She can't help it.  She's had a tough life, with her parents breaking up. It's very difficult on a young child. If her mother 'isn't in the picture' can you imagine how she must feel? She probably feels that her mother didn't love her! That's a terrible feeling for a child, and she's going to act out because of it. This little girl needs counseling. You could help alot by giving her as much love and attention as possible. Right now, she probably feels very 'unloveable.'
I'm sorry you feel the way you do about this child because she desperately needs you. You could be the mother she doesn't have.
If there are other issues with your husband, you should try couples counseling before you even try to have another child.
I wish you the very best. God bless and take care. Hugs, Lee
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