Not a book! Not enough information, even!
I'm sorry you've had such a complicated start to your emotional/relationship life, City_of_Angels. You're a sharp young woman, though, taking this on and seeing is as what it is: a problem arising from an earlier, unresolved trauma. It's not going to go away, you do have to deal with it.
But no where have you mentioned any medical work up. How violent was the rape? Was there physical trauma? Has a gynecologist examined you, fully aware of what happened? How about. A full work up profiling the skin/hair problems?
I'm sorry I didn't see your post earlier. Please post again--let's talk this out more. Others will join in.
Others? Come on. Don't let us down here ...

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