She's 6y.o. No matter what she's said or done, 6! You can't blame her can you? You're an adult, please help the little girl. I'm sorry being married has made you miserable, but a baby CAN'T fix that. When s/he is 2y.o, you'll be less preoccupied again, and realize you're miserable again, then want another baby again. You HAVE a 2y.o, what's wrong with him? I sincerely hope the novelty hasn't worn off. Please seek some form of counselling, for you and your 6.yo, maybe your husband too if he's adding to your misery. I really think you could benefit from it. And PLEASE, do N0T have another baby until you actually want another baby, babies should be more than a 2yr long distraction.