Change? No. Compromise? Yes, though it all depends on what you want others to accept. If you want someone to accept that you are say, a bad parent, an alcoholic, or irresponsible with money, that's a different story.

But that fact that many of you have low self esteem speaks volumes. Trust me, I have been there. But how can you expect love and acceptance from another when ou do love love and accept yourself? You cant continue to seek approval from others. I'm not going to say that not being accepted doesn't cause a kick in the side, but you can't let it define you or interrupt your life. if it is, the problem is deeper and it starts with YOU.

I hope you all find what you are looking for!