Alcoholic? what is it sober minded that ok or not? if I have a couple or is it any? I am confused some people say if I have 1 beer in evening I am a total alcoholic 1 beer please lmao,honest I drink beer with dinner usually have 1 or maybe sometimes if it is real real hot out I have 2 before dinner then I am done,maybe on weekends I may have couple more if we get company like her family or mine that does drink I offer them 1 and usually have 1 with them,is that a alcoholic if it is I am bad,I drawing line on this beer kick you all telling me about.I did forget to add I chewed tobacco for 30 years I recently quit 6 months ago that might be some of my mood swings maybe not all got to do with a beer you think>>>>>>>>>> Well anyway are marriage counseling is going to 2 times a month come this Tuesday I for see it to help us alot better my fingers are crossed.I am really going to try,talk my side this time so maybe will not only be 1 sided.Maybe with my wife gone a couple days she may feel better some, I guess,I just left chat rooms here at pc and ask what should I do about my wife going against my wishes,surprisingly many said nothing let it go,I am nervous she be home real soon,not sure what to do..........