please don't go out and have sex with random guys to get "better" at it. you only truly get the sex thing is with someone you connect with, can spend a lot of time with and be open about sex. I've learned a lot from a couple boyfriends that I was comfortable with and synced with sexually. that's where/when you learn what to do. a few guys here and there in my 20's never got me anywhere but feeling bad about myself. now my 30's, that's a different story.

also, I've done groupons for laser hair removal. it hurts, but man am I glad I did it. yes, you have more ground to cover but start with the places that bother you the most.

keep posting, I'm glad I had ten minutes to spend reading your story! thanks for posting!