Hi All-

I love coming onto this forum. This community is the best. Here is my dilemma with my hubby. We are going to marriage counseling this is our third session and a few things came to light. One, to me, is the most upsetting; therapist asked if he (hubby) was all into "saving the marriage or not at all into saving the marriage or if he has one foot in or one foot foot out. His response was that he "has one foot in and one foot out the door" when it comes to working on this marriage. The session ended before I had the courage to gain clarity over his response but its been bugging me as to the meaning. I'm naive mainly because I've been married for 23 years since I was eighteen and my husband is the only man I've been with so I don't have alot of experience picking up on cues. Any men out there who know what that means? If any women have gone through something similar and know the meaning I'd like to hear it. This marriage counseling thing is very painful.

Thank you all,

Whiteroses