Kureha, I haven't got much to add other than that just because people judge you for something doesn't mean it's a problem with you. Doesn't make in any easier, sure, but it maybe helps you have a thicker skin to think that way.

People judge each other on how they dress all the damned time. It's ridiculous. My rule has always been that if you don't stink, aren't showing the world your naughty bits, and all your open/festering wounds are covered, you are dressed well enough. If others don't like that it's their damn problem.