Ok here we go I been having alot problems posting keeps timing out or something.ESKIELOVER gonna try again Well the personal issues are easy, who doesn't take everything personal but my problem !!! I take it personal with my kids, I know I shouldn't do that ,is just man it hurts so bad and I try todo everything I can for all my daughters and it seems to bit me in the arse ever time ,that is why my wife says I am to personal. I be little her over finances I assume cause she has made some terrible mistakes early in are marriage that really set us way back as a couple, the trust I had for her went out the window, she agreed that my mom could help us with that issue,prolly cause my mother belled us out so we wouldn't loose are home, I am guessing.This 1 is easy why I treat her like a daughter simple, she is acting like a child not my fault she wants to argue with my children about anything and everything like little kids,ok might be my fault when my oldest was 5 below around wife had her friends over to are house I caught her mistreating her for no reason and I lost my cool went off bad said no way no one will ever miss treat any of my blood ever, really embarrassed her in front of her friends, I didn't care it was my daughter I was to protective.