Ok my family values are bad!!!! I get that cause she has 41 grandchildren in her family wouldn't have a clue why I wouldn't want to go to all that excitement my wife has 10 brothers and sisters drama drama drama Ok here's the kicker I haven't missed anything in a couple years but have in the past, I was bad I would do anything to not have to go to all that, was crazy!!! I was from a family of 4 not my fault,I really got uneasy at all the big crouds wasn't me never was from the beginning of are relationship.Ok this next one is sad, I truly regret it to this day,we was only married think 7 years at the time,I got raped from an older women, I couldn't resit at the time my wife was 6 months pregnant did not want a thing in the world to do with me, nothing at all she acted as if she hated the site of me being around her all the time,OK TRUTH IS I WAS YOUNG AND DUMB NO EXCUSE.