Ok this one is easy I have OCD on house being clean,when I don't see corners in a house I feel I am a dirty person, way I was raised sorry !!! I will never change that,I have seen houses with roaches when I was younger, I am petrified of any bugs or anything in my house scares me bad when there isn't some kind of order, things have a place ,all I ask is put them in it,her family can function with 2 feet of cloths on the floor and trails through there houses.MONEY easy ,we are lower class, took me years to build my credit(she destroyed early in marriage, well I let her I should say I trusted her with everything before she was ready) ,were I could support my family and make everyone here wishes come true or at least satisfied,we to this day drive vehicles no less then 3 years old,kids have top cloths, out there looks well to do but it isn't, it is watching how we spend and what we buy.My mom and father are the only family members we have that would help us early in are marriage, we went to them for everything as far as money,cause I pay everyone back no bull sh@t,her family was divorced and would never ever help us ever, we even asked ,her mother was rich to me ,what she made but would never help us ever at that time.Ok I really not have to explain why everything is in my name cause I am the stable one here the only one that isn't on meds to cope, I come to pc to cope, opps and drink a couple beer to cope ,can't leave that out,never missed a day of work since I was 15 unless sent home cause I was sick ,not that I wasn't there,I was to responsible I guess.My wife messed her credit up she did not pay her bills,until she got put in jail over a 17 year old debt she had when she bounced checks,but we all make mistakes when we are young in a marriage.