Ok relationships with my daughters my oldest completely destroyed myself an wife when she made her bad decisions when she turned 18, ran off with a boy when we stressed what she should have done an went to collage with her trade she won regionals an state went to nationals placed within 10 in the nationals and far as I can see she throwed it all away so far with that boy and her drugs they both enjoy.Ok I am scared to get to close who wouldn't be afraid,I went with my oldest to marchial arts she has her black belt we was totally close I did everything to make sure she was ready for the world, she had job car ,bank account was perfect I thought,total beat down she did nothing I teached her at all. NOW my other 2 I love dearly an spoil bad I admit,before was keeping my distance cause afraid to get hurt like I did before ,do U blame me my god I prayed I did everything got beat up by what happened when a child does opposite of what U have raised them how would U feel.