Tomi,

I can't imagine how hard it must be for you...it must be just awful. (You, too, Sabrina, and anyone else who is a victim)! I know that nothing I say can help, but I do hope that you can find a way to come to terms with the pain you feel.

BTW, I didn't see the Oprah thing, but they had an episode of SVU that must have been based loosely on the case you describe...it was so sadl! Having grown up in a relatively normal environment, it is hard for me to imagine what that must be like. I really feel for you all, though...I know the effects go on forever. How unfair!

Thinking of you,

DJ