I'm well jel. I'd love to have this problem.


But seriously I think this may have been said already, but have you tried approaching men you're interested in rather than expecting them to approach you? I mean being more proactive. I realise there's some stupid 'unwritten rule' about chasing men but I personally think it's a load of rubbish as many girls I know have had successful relationships with men they've been the ones to ask out, because sometimes men are shy themselves.

It might also help to know what kind of man you're actually attracted to yourself?

There are some people who are intimidated by attractive people and have presumptions about them, I've personally been out with an attractive guy, physically he was very cute (even though I consider myself ugly! it's the only crush I've ever had which has worked out hahaha) but when I was with him he bored me to hell. :/ We had nothing in common, I just liked the fact he was kind, but he was also too quiet, so it didn't last long. Basic attractiveness is important, but I think good looks are just a very good bonus in a real relationship, the whole package is important. So yeah like others have said, it might be your confidence and maybe you have shortfalls in other areas?