I'm sure you are beautiful, but why do you need to spend alot of time "looking perfect" by putting make-up on if you are naturally beautiful?

I think most guys don't like a vain personality; just like Carly Simon's lyric goes "You're so vain, you probably think this song is about you, don't you?" Girls don't like people with a vain personality, neither do guys.

And I have read the posts in this thread and you have tried to make clear that you are not arrogant or anything like that, and I do believe you. But that's how it might come across to guys who see you with so much make-up on and always trying to make yourself look like the hottest girl in the room. You don't need to hide behind make-up to impress guys if you are naturally beautiful.