you're NOT a loser. I have major depression and most of my friends have found it too hard to deal with or just couldn't understand why my behavior was the way it is sometimes and moved on. As i get older, my depression has made social situations more and more difficult and it makes me feel like i'm just not a likeable person. its really tough and i relate to your feelings of inadequacy. just remember that you're not alone and you're NOT a loser. you are worthy of love and respect and i think its common to feel un-entitled to those things when you're a victim of mental illnes. hang in there!