(((Lily2))),

The other thing you could do that doesn't cost anything? You can get involved with and attend AA meetings. My husband has been involved in that program for 20 years now and it has helped him so much with HIS issues. They do so much in those meetings and they are VERY unjudgmental and you will feel so welcome after a while.
That program is KNOWN for being incredibly helpful. AND, while you are there you also may get to meet someone who may know of a good therapist that is affordable.

Open Eyes