Thread: Missing my ex
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Old May 22, 2012, 07:02 PM
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Oh, ok, well perhaps it is just that your ex is marrying someone else. That can be a trigger or real reminder of a loss. After all, we are human and have our pride you know. Just remember, he didn't like children and this situation for him may not last either.

After all, you married him, you were commited, it was HE who strayed. You sound like a very responsible person as well. You still have emotions about all that. You are only human you know and maybe you just need to grieve a little more.

I am glad to hear that you have found someone else and it sounds like you love this other man right?

You have to let go and realize that he has made a choice. But it doesn't mean he will stick to that either you know. You have to think about YOU AND YOUR CHOICES as you are not like him.

(((Hugs saying it is ok to have feelings))
Open Eyes
Thanks for this!
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