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May 22, 2012, 10:24 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Sweetie, it sounds like you have a GREAT guy there -- you don't want to lose him. You desperately need some therapy so you won't lose him.
Is there any way you can squeeze in some sessions with a therapist after classes? I KNOW there are therapists who hold evening hours for people who work & go to school. Can you do that? You really need to see one to get a handle on this obsessing.  You have NO proof of his cheating -- and he's reassuring you that he's not. You've got to work on this so he doesn't throw in the towel, and get tired of being accused!
If he sees you're working on it, chances are very good he won't leave -- since he already told you he'd stand by you anyway. But everyone has their breaking point, so you've got to work to put a stop to this and therapy seems the best way to do this. 
Please -- call tomorrow and make an appointment. You won't regret it. God bless & please take care -- and let us know of your progress from time to time, will you? Hugs, Lee
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