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May 23, 2012, 12:40 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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There MUST be a Legal Aid attorney in your area -- these are attorney's that you don't have to pay! They are paid by the state/county in which you live. They are for people who cannot afford an attorney. See what your rights are as a woman/wife. Also, ask what help there is "out there" for women. He would know!!!
You CANNOT stay with this man. I do NOT believe you're staying because you 'love' this man. I believe you're staying because you have nowhere else to go -- and perhaps because you're afraid of him, right?
My ex used to intimidate me too plus he would bring up EVERY SINGLE THING I ever did in our marriage that he deemed "wrong." It may NOT have been wrong, but Mr. God said it was.  Plus he kept "lists" -- lists of everything I said, did, may have done, where I went, etc. Any time I went to visit my mother, he called --- to make sure that's where I was. Oh, he'd make the excuse that he wanted me to pick something up at the store -- but every single time I visited Mom for 26 years??? Yeah, right.
Why didn't I leave? I was scared of him. Finally I got so sick of it, I didn't care if he killed me, and I told him I wanted a divorce and he left. What a relief!!! Of course, he stalked me for the next year until I moved out of town. 
See the Legal Aid Attorney -- find out your rights and get OUT. God bless and please take care!!! Hugs, Lee
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