Gee, do I feel for you. My periods altered my life somewhat too--- very painful and heavy flow.

I finally got some medical advice when I was 30 years old and even though heart disease is in my family-- my dad died of a heart attack, my brother survived one and a sister had breast cancer--- I went on the pill. It was THE best thing I ever did!! I was on it for 10 years and so far I've not had any side affects.

This is not meaning for you to go on the pill.....I think going for medical advice is your best direction at this time-- and hopefully the doctor can help you make the best decision for your own body and mind.

Just thought I'd share my experience with you.

Good luck to you!