Jenn1fer82
I think you are being a good big sister to your younger sibling here.
I can't give you much info- I am the baby of the family and it is hard to talk to my older siblings about stuff due to they themselves have so many issues with coping.
I think it is a wonderful idea that you have suggested books for your sister to read- I am not sure if Teenager Books or Adult books would differ with different healing- I am sure either one of you could search on line to see if there is a specific age range.
I may ask if your Sister has a councilor that she can talk to- Even if it is at school...
I can understand that may be very difficult and I never did, but it is a suggestion to through out there.
You are healing- and that is the course that needs to be done- You are trying to help your sister out by getting her on the right path for her healing.
I know it may not mean much but I don't think you should hold any guilt for this- you are trying right now-
Many hugs to you. Hope you both do well in healing.