Hi Newguy

I’m a guy and have had that problem in the past. It is also referred to as sexual anorexia where you hardly engage in sex. For me problems that occurred in my childhood have directly correlated to my sexual problems in adulthood. So the same may be for you. But first you need to see a medical doctor to make sure there is no physical problems that may cause impotency for example. If that is ok, then you will probably need therapy. For me my mother not giving love or affection as a child has greatly affected me in adulthood especially in a sexual sense. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions.