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Originally Posted by Mommilady
Wow. What you are all talking about is stuff I have done for years .... rationalizing, "forgetting", downplaying. Thank you all for sharing. I don't have much to add except that it took me a long time to accept that the loss of trust was the greatest damage done to me, even more than any specific acts and even if I couldn't remember all the details.
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I think this is such a good, healthy attitude to have taken on. I mean, I always think I'm the exception to the rule, but it seems to me that if you get past the need for specifics and acknowledge the impact of whatever happened, you're headed in the right direction.
Still, why this need to know for sure? You know what I mean?
Thanks for writing, Mommilady!