I think it's part of the "mom" thing to want to fix you, but what so many people don't understand we are not like broken cars. We don't need "fixed" we need some compassion a bit of understanding. And we are individuals there isn't a "one size fit's all" course of action that will help, your triggers are huge to you, and that is all that counts.

It's so easy to look at someone else and wonder why they don't "just get over it", "move on", "cowboy up" if it was that easy we would have done it already, why can't people understand that?