Ok are marriage counseling section was hard very scary for me,but I found out I was over ruling,king of my castle ,my way or no way, I was a bad husband for alot of years I accept that statement ,I have been trying to see my wifes side on everything and how she got to this point,bad part is I can see it,how everything got bad.We as humans take life and lives for gran-it we all do it 1 way or another not meaning to or even trying to is just are alls nature,I know now, we all really don't know ,what we have, until it is lost or gone, that is so so sad cause 100% of all us wants to be happy and in love and respected and cared for, want to fill full filled inside,my approach is on both sides for the rest of my life,I will never be ,my way again,we will discuss ever issues as it may come forward to us as adults should all do.The problem is men and woman actually have different languages ,I have learned through this hole issue I am going through with my wife and also my daughters,I have been a avid reader through my tough times to cope instead of all man caves and beers.John Gray rocks I would advise anyone to read his books very good relative books for family issues. And also Eskielover I love U and Leed both thanks an Shezbut HUGS TO U ALL