Desirae,
It seems like you are disturbed by the "adult talk" that traps the men. Actually there are 13 year olds who if given suggestion will talk about sex. They are curious appropriate for their age. That doesnt mean it is okay to have sex with them because they have appropriate curiousity. What is even worse is that they will be more apt to give in to sexual talk if they are insecure. The worse household dynamics, the more they can be pressured into talking about sex. So although maybe you were strong as a teen and would never have done that, there are teens who have been molested at young ages, have horrible family lives, insecure, or appropriately-curious and would give into suggestion. Perverted Justice never starts talks about sex, but lets it evolve after someone suggests it. And they are never the first one to initiate a meeting. Therefore, again, the child molest/pervert whatever you want to call them.. is at fault. THIS CAN and DOES happen in real life. Kids do get coaxed into sexual talk. That doesnt mean its their faul, or that we should think its a lesser sin for the pervert because the kid talked about it. In fact 6 year olds will talk about sex, but that doesnt mean the person talking to them about it is not doing harm.