Except for the loss of your uncle (for which I am sorry) you had MY day!
Our cable/internet/TV got shut off for nonpayment. I have been inpatient and my mother was NOT supposed to know for obvious reasons. Well she found out yet refuses to call me. If she did, we'd have the same conversation as you and your mother.
I don't understand it at all but I am very sorry you have to deal with all that. Take good care.