((((HUGS))))...gosh, that just be frustrating...and illegal too, by the sounds of things...i'm studying family law atm and if ur still a guardian of her (which i'd assume u are if ur getting access!), you have the right to be involved in decisions about medical treatment ur kids are getting...s16 Children of Children Act 2004 off the top of my head! Ur lawyer's probly already told u that, but i just wanted to say that i sympathize b/c that must be so frustrated for u...and if u can't get hold of ur lawyer u can always just pm me, even though i'm still a student, i can always try to answer any questions Hope this gets sorted out soon and take care!