I really, really, REALLY thought about telling him not to come home last night. However, I want desperately to move as soon as possible because we live next door to my deranged mother and lying, stealing, scum bag brother in law and sister. Financially, I cannot move by myself. So, he's staying my husband until we move at least. Does that make me a selfish, horrible person? I'm justifying it in my head by saying that it also gives us more time to work out our issues, AND that living elsewhere will lower our stress levels dramatically which will put less pressure on our marriage. So it's not like I'm kicking him out as soon as we move no matter what. It just means I'm not divorcing him right now, no matter what.