It's really nice to hear that you've seen and felt some real improvement between yourself and your wife. That is wonderful to hear! I just advise you both to keep going to counseling together, and keep working to make your marriage more happy and secure for both of you.

You'll eventually reach a phase in development, where you'll feel confident in continuing to move forward again, without the T. Those are wonderful times! I hope that things continue to progress for you and your family in the future.

Best wishes!