Hello LydiaB,

WE don't have a host either and we have many personalities. As you all are healing if it comes to pass that you don't have a host and you feel you want a host then maybe asking your T to help you start making some ideas of who want to be a host. I have found in my 20+ years of healing from MPD/D.I.D. that if were all co-conscious and were all sorta moving along then why worry about it.
As for you being rare, just in my opinion I don't think it matters as much as getting along, staying safe, getting new jobs to replace the old jobs you might or might not need. But to be rare, that is nice, don't cha think.

I would not worry. Things have a way of working out and I can tell you this will work itself out within you.

Great healing, Peace Crew