Thanks for your reply I really appreciate it, it's nice to know I am not the only one that isn't the stereotypical guy that feels no emotion I guess.

When I first started to tackle this problem that was the first thing I wanted to go and check out because I was almost hopeful it was a physical problem because that seemed to be something easier to fix. After a blood test or two for my testosterone and just general health he said it was merely performance anxiety and I would get over it and gave me a prescription for Viagra which did its job but didn't help with my actual problem. So I guess I am going to start having to look into therapy and it's cost, but unfortunately i know its going to be out of my price range. Anyone in NY have a tips to get therapy with help from the state?