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Rhapsody said:
Is your son eating well for the father during the other two meals of the day? - if YES, then I would still allow your son to go.... he needs to remain a part of his dads life.... to bond in love and friendship as males do.


LoVe,
Rhapsody -

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He only has him from lunch time until after dinner (his choice not mine). He often says that my son ate really well at lunch but my sons behavior often indicates that he hadn't had much for lunch or dinner.

I'm not suggesting that my son not see his father at all, I'm only concerned about him taking him out of state for four days when he hasn't had him spend the night in over four months, isn't able to feed him properly (for one reason or another) and isn't willing to compromise on what to feed him.

For the record, I'm the one who keeps insisting that my son have as much contact as possible with his father and his fathers family.