i'd be really interested to hear her answer to your q if you want to share it

i too would rather make myself very early for an important appointment rather than late - i have learnt to go for a wander though rather than atually turning up early but thats only so i dont look silly

its been really interesting to read this - i amoddly, known in my family for being late forthingsbut when its important i arrive stupidly early

lots to ponder on here for me - thanks x