Yes. Last time we were talking about how I blurted out some CSA info when my husband triggered me. I was telling T that I was a big lying drama queen. He asked something like "So you told him about it because you wanted attention and you wanted him to feel sorry for you?" And I responded that no, it was more like I felt cornered and decided that if H was going to act like a douchebag that I was going to stop protecting him from the awfulness. He was making me angry so I wasn't going to be a barrier in between the horror and a husband that wasn't worth protecting. Let him deal with it on his own.

Yeah, that doesn't sound so much like drama queen motivation, huh? I had to stop talking because I was so confused.