For me there's a price to pay for every relationship I have and I am now broke. Emotionally anyway. Although T is costing me financially too. I think that's why Im ok with T not being as "nice" as a lot of other Ts seem to be on here. If he was it would only cost me more in the long run and I would have to bail myself out. And that goes the same in real life. People take what they want then p*** off and leave.