We both forgot our vows, although the bigger mistakes were mine. My specific goal, although it is still a few steps down the road from here, is a private vow renewal/recommitment ceremony just for the two of us. We broke our vows to each other, me worse than her, and it should be to each other alone that we renew our vows. We may later have a reception or something to show our recommitment to our friends and family, but it is the private ceremony just for us that will hold the real meaning. May that day soon come to pass, though there is still a lot of hard work before us.