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Originally Posted by bpd2
Girl to therapist: "You said I should try being late. I worried about that a little. If I were late . . . would that mean that I would still have to leave at the end of the hour, or would you be able to have enough time at the scheduled end of the appointment to tack a little time on?" You could even ask: "Is this a good time of day to have the appointments? It seems to be hard for you to get here on time, and I have to get here early. Is there another option that would work better? It's okay, it there isn't, but what do you think?"
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Then I agree with bpd2 and you should bring it up like that.. Show her that her behavior is bothering you without getting hostile or anything.. Because what you are saying makes her sound like the worst therapist ever..
I'd probably end up saying something like, "well sorry I am such an inconvenience to your social life.. don't be doing me any favors by showing up to help me -_- .. even though I am paying for your services!"
But like I said.. bpd2 worded it very nicely
