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Old May 25, 2012, 10:37 AM
needhelp850 needhelp850 is offline
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I recently got back with my husband after being separated for 2years. One of the main reasons I left was because he was so needy and selfish of my time. He seemed to be so jealous of my time spent with friends, family, or even self so, I limited it. When I talked to him and sometimes cried about it, he just didn't get it...He would say I need my time. I must mention, though, there werren't problems if I was spending time with his family.

As a result, after having been away fom my kids (including new grandbaby), and not being able to fully enjoy them prior to initial break up, I look forward to seeing them regularly. I've moved back to town and live within walking distance. Unfortuanately, there seems to always be tension in the air when my husband comes home and there are visitors. No, it isn't every day but several times a week. I would love to fully laugh and enjoy family with him but it just isn't happening.

I am so ready to leave him again. I feel trapped and limited.

Sure he works and is dedicated to me. No he doesn't hang out at night or curse me. ... I say this because so many women settle for that only.

We have fun when we go out but just sitting at home, its often boring. Conversation most always often involves his work. We don't play games because he doesn't do well with competition-getting beat. He relaxes more if he drinks but one too many and I can't stand him.

We talk pretty much all day in and out because our work schedules allow so when we get home there isn't too much more to talk about.

Help!!!!!!!!!!! I am really ready to be alone.